So when you paint with that broad of a brush, you include me in on it.
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Well...you insist that your government school is different. You insist that your daughter has never witnessed bullying. I suppose you have never witnessed it either.
If this is true, then you are not part of the problem.
Authoritarian bullies will always support each other.
That is not a request, it is a demand. She is now and forever will be off limits to you.