On that, we can agree. But I only ask you to put yourself in the moderates position of opposing people who will, (and have) killed their own sisters over 'dishonor' and would treat anyone outside the family even worse.
We need to find a way to give the moderates a voice without asking that they all become targets. If you have any ideas on how to do that, I'd be glad to hear them but just telling people they need to be John Wayne ain't going to work.
I don't think speaking out against the slaughter of innocent civilians is the sole province of John Wayne.