I've seen televised reports where they trot out all these women that are happily divorced. These women are full of stories about how much happier they are because, if they have to make a decision concerning the kids or something needs to be done, they can just do it without having to consult or task a husband who's probably going to just screw it up anyway.
For all these women who are full of stories about how awful their last marriage was and what a bumbling lazy idiot he was, I'd like to ask: You made the conscious decision to marry the cad, so what does that say about YOU? (I have asked the same question of guys at work who sit around and complain about how stupid, lazy, and moody their wives are.)
Exactly, If they had put the time and effort into learning who their spouse was before marrying, they would still be married. If it was a mistake then, they should still be able to be friends instead of psychotic ex's.