Huh? How is it endangering her life?
"How is jerking off in front of a 14yr old girl, not endangering her life?"
Huh? How is it endangering her life?
Just what I said, I mean. It may cause problems for this girl, in relation to normalcy. Maybe it won't. I'm not all milktoasty about sexual abuse. She may have the right upbringing and people around her to handle this, but it could have psychological long term effect, also. Something like this happened to my ex-wife. It has potential to leave scars.
Go ahead and condone it, but it's just not healthy behavior, barricading the door, and subjecting her to that.