I was merely echoing what most experts were saying. I assumed with their experience in this area they knew what they were talking about.
They may be absolutely right for some children and families, but not for others. That's what makes it so hard to judge from the outside.
I'm afraid on the media interviews, the "experts" tend to make definitive statements with "always" and "never," because that's what the media wants, sadly. It's a shame they're willing to do that, when the reality is never 100%.