You nailed it, Steel Wolf, as usual. It's good to see someone who's actually been here inject a little reality. I know I'd fit into the "defeatist" definition offered here. No doubt in my mind. And I'm out fighting in this gaggle constantly!
Hit FSE's "In Forum" link to get even more of a boots-on-the-ground warrior's perspective. For me, one FSE post cancels out 100 keyboard warrior posts any day.