No one sends their kids to war. Adults volunteer and go to do a job. If she sent her son to war, made him go, then she should be ashamed.
Synopsis: Cindy is promoting the "talks at the table of humanity. So she is extolling, essentially, that old feminist fable that one can "talk a rapist out of raping her". What, oh what, would Cindy say to a suicide bomber at her tofu table...