[IslandJeff]

Where do you live? Have a thing for Accountants?

;0)

[the OlLine Rebel]

Wow, you're both in WA!

[Rate_Determining_Step]

Here's how to reel 'em in laddie.

Just chill. Treat each date as a TV episode of "Joey" or some other innocent exercise. Have fun, expect nothing other than a nice time out. Don't be too serious, reflective, deep, etc. Be charming.

I never kiss them or try to make the moves on them.

This does a couple of things... But mainly, you don't come across as a needy loser. They see confidence and ease. And... THEY get all carbonated up, dying to tear YOUR clothes off.

You can also concentrate on sizing them up. It's hard to not reveal a lot yourself after two or three platonic dates.