[AppyPappy]

Considering I was up with a nursing baby for a few months ( times five kids) you can be DAMN sure that my husband wouldn't have been on the golf course on the weekends. I needed to catch up on my sleep!

If kids are that much trouble, put them up for adoption. You can sleep all you want when they are gone.

[Texas_shutterbug]

Well, I can see that you would be a real involved dad. (sarcasm)

Any guy who plays golf all day when his wife has been up all week with a baby feeding at 11:00 p.m., 2:00 a.m. and 5:00 a.m. (and taking care of a two year old and four year old during the day) would be considered a selfish jerk by a lot of people, including my husband!

I don't put my kids up for adoption, but I have adopted. Your advice is noted, however.