It's natural to feel grief when a marriage is lost. Been there, done that! I worry that our girl is engaged to a man who's very 'thrifty' and makes much more than she does, yet expects her to pay half of everything...even after they marry!
She already admitted she has no money left after bills, yet she wants her own account to make purchases without having to get permission. Sheesh, no wonder his first wife dumped him.
I'm glad you're a good mom and that you are free to enjoy your life!
Well...knock that girl down and drag her backwards from the altar! She has no idea what she's getting into. :)