[Mr. Jeeves]

The world is your mirror. When you feel the need to judge another's behavior, it's usually because there is something about that behavior that reflects something in yourself that you don't like. For example, there is a fondness among male posters on FR for throwing around the words "slut" and "whore" on threads discussing female promiscuity and its results. These judgments are usually coming from men who, somewhere deep inside, wish women like those discussed in the articles had in the past chosen to be promiscuous with them. ;)

[JamesP81]

These judgments are usually coming from men who, somewhere deep inside, wish women like those discussed in the articles had in the past chosen to be promiscuous with them.

That makes zero sense. Some men mention those things because they really don't want to marry such a person. I know I wouldn't. Society tells women that dressing and acting provactively (sp) is a good thing. It attracts attention, to be sure, but it's the wrong kind. I've no interest in those kinds of women, and most men with a brain don't either.

[Petruchio]

Not always. Sometimes they come from men who divorced after her 3rd affair . . .

If (and that is a HUGE "IF") I ever get married again I want to be absolutly sure My pen is the only one in the inkwell.