I think Dawn's currently being 37 has more to do with her melancholy than her sordid past.
Thursday.
Chesterton wrote a book about a man named Thursday ... and that is what turned this woman around.
Why do people who are clearly mentally ill gather such large readerships?
I sacrificed what should have been the best years of my life for the black lie of free love."
Translation: It wasn't my fault. I accept no responsibility for my bad decisions.
I'm 37 too, but never had sex until the end of 35. For reasons that are implied partly by the subject matter here. ;D
The ironic thing about "free love" is that it GAVE IN to the macho notion of women being objects to use for sex and lust. It made it "easy" for boys/men to satisfy their lusts and hence, girls/women were MORE "objects" than they were when more chaste.
It gives the lie to the notion that pre-marital unrestricted sex = liberated women.
All they did was, if you will, bring women down to the level of men. ;-)
Casual sex is masturbation under difficult circumstances.
Some women refuse to learn the basic concepts about men and women. Some women who do learn the basic concepts refuse to acknowledge that the concepts apply to them. When did you first notice women in college taking “feminist” classes whilst the men took classes that would benefit them in their chosen profession?
The first basic concept that women need to accept is that men and women are not created equal. Men and women complement each other. Men and women complete each other. Men and women are complementary.
Another, perhaps less accepted concept, is that women give sex to get love whilst men give love to get sex.
Male college students do not want female college students to read this article.
I read an interesting take on *why* some people are sluts, for purely biological reasons. It is based on the idea that many people will not produce and raise optimal offspring, so sluts act to inhibit their reproduction, like sterile fruit flies.
Acting in a complementary manner to all the other biological and social reproductive processes, that work to produce the best offspring being raised by the best parents, slutty behavior is designed to 'distract' those who are not optimal breeders.
Assume you have 5 males and 5 females. Only three of each are the best breeding pairs. This leaves two couples that need to "get out of the way", as otherwise they might interfere with the breeding pairs.
Infertility isn't enough, as that could still interfere; so what is needed is someone who is willing to engage both of the other sex that shouldn't have offspring.
But it doesn't stop there. Biology dictates a window of time for optimal reproduction. Therefore, a post-menopausal woman is ideal to distract younger, undesirable males away from the better females. An older man, likewise, can distract younger, undesirable females.
This also is a possible explanation for some types of homosexuality. Biology dictates that they shouldn't reproduce.
All told, legitimate biological reasons may explain much of traditional human "bad" behavior.
Radical feminism has done a lot of damage. More proof.
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It's really far worse than we think =
In FONDA's Footsteps: MURTHA, KUCINICH, and the Antiwar Movement's Economic War
http://www.Freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1767820/posts
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My suggestion to her is to spend more time involved in church projects with single men and less time at the old salt mill.
She will be surprised at what happens.
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You all posted on similar subject matter threads a couple of months ago regarding a campus psychiatrist's book--thought you might be interested in this article.
Friendship will bind your hearts with hoops of steel that neither age nor adversity will break.
If you were only 37 you missed it.
What a terrific article! Needs to be disseminated through the American press. I wonder who might pick it up.
So is this article confirmation that female teacher with male student "is different" than male teacher with female student?