I think you are very generous.
I think you sound like a typical cut and run weenie who thinks that 3,000 deaths is too many. After three years of war, you're sounding like you'd like us to leave. So glad you weren't around during WWII.
The History Channel has a weekly show called Military Blunders in History. Most of those shows detail what was done wrong by the allies during WWII. We'd be speaking German by now if folks like you were around then.
If you think Bush should apologize for our dead in Iraq then I put you in the same crazy group as Cindy Sheehan.