Thank you for the reference. I thought about giving her "The Rules" but she is too old/experienced for that. This seems much better, especially as the writer appears not to demean the reader or impart guilt for previous bad choices.
My husband's niece created a webpage when she was planning her wedding. Boldly placed on the front page were the events of the proposal, which was issued to her in bed, presumably after a memorable night.
Very now, very tacky.