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My depressed girlfriend came over around 10 pm one Saturday night in January 9 years ago and begged me to go out for a drink, just one she said. So we went to this bar named Moby Dick's...I hated the place,never had a good time there. I had noticed this biker guy sitting alone around the corner from where I sat. He looked mean and nasty...... I really didn't want to go out and I wanted to go home. While my girlfriend was having a good old time I wasn't. When I went to look at the clock I had to walk past that biker. He pulled on my hair , (I have very long hair) and asked me if I wanted a drink. Before I could say no thanks the bartender had my drink and there I was talking to this guy. .....I found out looks can be very deceiving. I had a great time that night. He asked me for my number but waited to call me for 2 weeks. He says he didn't want me to think he was that interested. I found out later he had his father hold my number so he wouldn't lose it. Told his dad I found the one I want to settle down with. He had never been married and his dad thought he was crazy. Now his dad loves me. That was 9 yrs ago this January. We now have a 7 yr old daughter, gave up the drinking and life is really good. He still looks mean and nasty, and can be if he needs to be. But he is a good father to my other children and our daughter is his world. What others couldn't or wouldn't see under the mean nasty looks, I saw. And all the women at the bus stop in our neighborhood love him. He takes our daughter in the mornings on his way to work and they bring him homemade cookies and muffins and coffee.