My great consolation is that my children know music and won't inflict any trash on those in attendance.
I had the pipes played at my mother's funeral, because her infirmity kept her from going to Scotland and England, which she had always wanted to visit.
My mother's funeral we had many of the normal catholic hymns sung by a parishioner of our parish .. He has a very beautiful voice
He also sang one of my mother's favorite hymn ... Ava Maria