Thanks. I've been to one there, but it may have been because of Who She Was; I had assumed it was for everyone if they could get it scheduled (it would take years!).
the "who she was" WOULD play a factor, especially there .. you couldn't PAY me to get married (or buried from) the National Cathedral as it's evolved in the past couple decades ... they seem to have lost complete track of its raison d'etre and turned to worshiping a golden calf, if you will.