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See Dick call. See Jane text. Why parents are giving in to children's requests for cell phones
Star Ledger ^ | 12.10.06 | KELLY HEYBOER

Posted on 01/01/2007 1:45:53 PM PST by Coleus

Joe Skarimbas was just learning to read when he decided he was ready to join the digital age. "When he went to first grade he said, 'When am I going to get a cell phone?'" said Joe's mother, Tara Skarimbas.

The Leonia family decided to hold off on getting young Joe a phone until he turns 10 and starts walking home from school alone. But his mother understands the temptation to get her son, who turns 8 this month, a cell phone as soon as possible.

"Just for safety purposes," she said, glancing toward the new Disney Mobile kiosk during a shopping trip to the Paramus Park mall last week.

As the adult and teenage cell phone market becomes saturated, cell phone companies are targeting younger and younger users. This holiday season several companies -- including Disney, Verizon, TicTalk and Firefly -- are pushing brightly colored cell phones specially designed for children as young as kindergartners.

(Excerpt) Read more at nj.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: cellphones; consumerculture; consumerism; culturewar; instantgratification; parentsnotfriends; tweens
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To: Xenalyte

Basketball games away often dont get them back till later than that. Quit trying to catch me in one of my black outs....Ive found if I drink a little constantly things seems consistant.


301 posted on 01/02/2007 1:47:28 PM PST by DainBramage
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To: greccogirl
"I didn't have to talk to them on the phone for two hours during it."
If a member of my family is in danger, it is not a matter of "NEED", it is a manner of wanting to know everything that is going on.

If this is the last communication I have with my son I do not want to miss out on the ability to express my love and pray with him.

This is obviously a concept that is beyond your ability to comprehend.


"The school was in charge, period."
That would really be scary if it were true.

I cannot think of a more inept and indecisive group of know nothings, the thought of having them "in charge" during a time of crisis is inconceivable.

The police are in charge once they are on site.

302 posted on 01/02/2007 3:54:30 PM PST by Souled_Out (Our hope is in the power of God working through the hearts of people.)
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To: greccogirl; DainBramage; Fierce Allegiance; HOTTIEBOY; najida; StarCMC
The crime rate was worse then than now!! It is no more risky.

Do you figure that may be because there is more contact available between children and protectors BECAUSE OF CELL PHONES? SmileyCentral.com

303 posted on 01/02/2007 4:58:09 PM PST by trussell
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To: trussell
You cant talk to these idiots. Everything was worse then. I see grecco living in horrendous and dangerous conditions that would have scared even the toughest males, yet she coped without any technology whatsoever, except maybe electricity, radios, cars, and other things her grandparents got along fine without. Oops.. that doesnt fit the scenario....

Id love to see actual crime statistics on youth abductions, rapes, and violent crime instead of just pullng some statemnt out of thier ass like "it was much worse then.."

304 posted on 01/02/2007 5:10:06 PM PST by DainBramage
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To: null and void

Of course I see the difference. However there isn't a "meth twiker" around every bush and neither is there a child molestor behind every bush.


305 posted on 01/02/2007 5:33:12 PM PST by greccogirl
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To: DainBramage

I'm not a parent,
I am a woman who has and continues to travel a great deal all over the state....often on back roads, often at night.

I have a cell phone, not to chat with buddies, but for safety first, and secondly, for convenience...more than once I've gotten calls while on the road that were necessary for me doing my job.

If I had a child, no matter how young, I would make sure they had one, even the pay as you go for emergency only kinds.

I can't fathom those who see it as a bad thing for children! It's insane!


306 posted on 01/02/2007 5:33:26 PM PST by najida (If it wasn't for fast food, I'd have no food at all.)
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To: palmer

I just don't think cell phones are that necessary - I think they are more of a control device for parents and really just make them feel better, rather than giving any true safety to the child. Just IMHO. To each his own.


307 posted on 01/02/2007 5:35:09 PM PST by greccogirl
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To: Fierce Allegiance

I just think cellphones are a convenience and not really a safety issue, unless certain circumstances are there. Certainly not every child needs one.


308 posted on 01/02/2007 5:37:49 PM PST by greccogirl
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To: <1/1,000,000th%

There you are.


309 posted on 01/02/2007 5:38:34 PM PST by greccogirl
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To: Souled_Out

Oh come on, you really need to talk to them constantly just for a lockdown? My parents never felt that need and neither did I.


310 posted on 01/02/2007 5:41:04 PM PST by greccogirl
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To: trussell

No, I don't, and neither would any thinking person.


311 posted on 01/02/2007 5:41:42 PM PST by greccogirl
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To: DainBramage

My conditions were probably normal for a lot of kids. We didn't have cell phones, or cars, or lots of stuff when I went to high school. Our parents weren't RICH. We had to work! So what?


312 posted on 01/02/2007 5:42:36 PM PST by greccogirl
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To: greccogirl
Certainly not every child needs one.

Nope, you are right. My kids don't need one most of the time, either, so they stay home to reduce the chance they are lsot or stolen, but they have them availaible when the curcumstances warrant.

313 posted on 01/02/2007 5:50:46 PM PST by Fierce Allegiance (SAY NO TO RUDY!)
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To: greccogirl

That's only because you have an agenda...and are unwilling to concede that you are wrong.


314 posted on 01/02/2007 6:06:25 PM PST by trussell
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To: greccogirl
"you really need to talk to them constantly just for a lockdown?"
Still having a problem reading and comprehending what you are reading?

As stated before it is not a matter of "need". It is a matter of wanting to know everything that was happening to my son.


"My parents never felt that need and neither did I."
Who cares, are you so warped that you think everyone should be exactly like you?

If you don't care what is happening to your family during a crisis that is your problem, live with it.

315 posted on 01/02/2007 7:17:11 PM PST by Souled_Out (Our hope is in the power of God working through the hearts of people.)
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To: Nathan Zachary

I guess not. To be honest, I was surprised that night I was trying to find a payphone. The half-dozen places I went to that I *knew* had payphones (including a shopping center with at least a dozen businesses including a large grocery store) were all no-pay-phone zones, apparently. My older son says that there is a payphone at the HS but it didn't work when he was a freshman in 1999 and it still doesn't.

When my mother lamented the absence of payphones a year ago, I thought she was being difficult but she was right, at least around here. I am not at all pro 'cell phones for every kid' but we got my youngest (15) one for Christmas. It has been great because while I used to give him my phone to take when he went somewhere, it meant I was tied to the house the entire time. Now he can call me and say "Dave's dad is bringing me home from Baptist Youth Group, I don't need a ride" or "I missed the bus but I rode Tony's bus home and I'll walk home from his house" which has been really, really nice.


316 posted on 01/02/2007 8:32:27 PM PST by ktscarlett66 (Face it girls....I'm older and I have more insurance....)
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To: FreedomCalls

I guess his/her kids don't change their clothes every day???


317 posted on 01/02/2007 8:40:18 PM PST by ktscarlett66 (Face it girls....I'm older and I have more insurance....)
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To: SideoutFred

Too many predators out there. Society is sick and you have to at least think about what safety options you wish to provide your kids.<<<<<<<

I know, and my 8 year old grandson has one. He is not allowed to have it until after school (his parents drive him to and from school, as he attends a religious school out of walking distance). He may have it with him when out playing, but still has the same rules as before, he cannot range away from the immediate area just because of the phone. He has followed the rules exactly so far, no problems, no unexpected bills. He can't answer the phone if the name of the caller doesn't show (parents have programmed in the family and others allowed to call). I guess for the moment it's working out well, he's acting responsibly, and everyone is comfortable with the easier communication if needed.


318 posted on 01/02/2007 8:43:13 PM PST by Mjaye (Some folks close their mouth only long enough to change feet.)
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To: Coleus
I got a cell phone when they first came out. I learned to hate them. Mainly it is a waist of time. Someone is always calling you saying, "where you at?" I am like, Does it matter? This is while i am working.

Answering machines is the way to go.

319 posted on 01/02/2007 8:49:29 PM PST by Steve Van Doorn (*in my best Eric cartman voice* ?I love you guys?)
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To: Coleus

I'll be honest - I'm a big proponent of 'make 'em walk' in most cases. However, my sons would have to walk along a main road on which there are at *least* 2 major accidents a week, as well as 4 bikers (bicycle-bikers) that have been hit by cars, 2 during a 'bike tour' weekend. While I don't have a problem with my kids walking in some situations, I do have a problem with my sons walking 20 miles along that road.


320 posted on 01/02/2007 8:58:51 PM PST by ktscarlett66 (Face it girls....I'm older and I have more insurance....)
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