Reorganized a little:
1. We could be wiped out by some disaster. Space colonization is an insurance policy against that,
2. as well as a fulfillment of the destiny of human life.
3. It is a step of evolution as great as when life first left the sea,
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1. It doesn't matter and it wouldn't be the first time, but space colonization wouldn't make much difference
2. Destiny needs to be a little grander than having a colony on Mars.
3. Actual evolution would require a higher resonant point, which isn't present in mere additional planets.
I've tried to explain this before, to no avail. Maybe I'm not eloquent enough, or maybe you just can't see past the end of your nose, but if your interested in space science, how can you not be interested in space travel? One must always follow the other. Otherwise, as you say, it won't make much difference.
If America won't participate then we've lost that forward drive that's always been the hallmark of our nation. Regrettably, that seems to be a real possibility.