I don't expect anything of a judge other than they do a competent or possibly even brilliant job. I don't care where they live or with whom their kids attend school. You sound like we all read a version of People magazine for top federal employees.
I want my kids to go to fine schools too - but that doesn't mean my employer should feel beholden to pay me more just because I have a kid of college age.
I don't give a crap about the Ivy League, but I know that my husband wouldn't take a big cut in pay if it meant that he couldn't provide his children with what we considerimportant.
People Magazine? What's that? :)