Just including you in the discussion. Please don't
take it personally. Many, including yourself have
not been judgmental at all.
There's nothing wrong with discernment, which all Christians are called to exercise. Without it, soon you will have a Christian religion that thinks loving one's neighbor is all important, and in loving him, then we accept all his idiosyncracies, all his false beliefs, and next thing you know we're all singing "We are the world" and "Imagine" with the Dalai Lama and Cheepak Dopra" Abd hawking "Get rich" books on Oprah and Larry King.