My youngest child is three and I STILL don't leave her with a babysitter. I would never leave a child who can't communicate well with a stranger.
I am thankful that I have a good husband who values my contribution to our home and children over having extra money.
I would have never survived leaving a six week old baby in daycare.
Thank goodness for mommies like you! Trust me, you'll never regret the time spend with your beautiful children (like I need to tell you that!) I'm thrilled your husband is supportive. Every child should be so blessed! Enjoy your children....they grow up way too quickly! :)