AMEN! I not for one minute fault divorced moms, but do take issue with mom working outside the home before her child is five or six.
I realize how hard it is to survive on one salary (read: excessive taxes), but kids need love and TLC till they become well-adjusted enough to spread their wings.
Today some mothers were working for years before marriage and have reached a pay scale that the father hasnt quite reached. A mother quitting a $50,000 dollar a year job to stay home while the father makes $30,000 is a tough nut to crack.
Perhaps you should let parents make their own choices instead of imposing your standards on them.