If you can't tell the difference between San Francisco and the rest of California, then you're the nut.
Sadly, all people who live in California are subject to the loudest of mouths, the weirdest of behaviors, the nuttiest nutwads, and the strangest of trends put forward by the people who are drawn to that sort of thing and who of course, reside in California. You are going to have to live with that, relocate or change it.