More than that. You appear to want women to have their cake and eat it too.
How about this, require women to register for the draft with the men. If a draft is re-instituted, draft women for the jobs they now hold and in the same proportional numbers they now hold those jobs?
If that's not acceptable, get women out of the military altogether.
I don't know why you think I want women to have their cake and eat it too. I said I don't like women in combat type roles, but I respect those who are in the military. Just because I have misgivings about the role of women in the military doesn't mean I cannot appreciate their service, since after all they're fighting for me (and you).
So, go argue with someone else.
susie