"I had to call the shots last month. You have to call the shots this month."
When you stop looking at "running the show" as a prize, and start looking at it as hard work and being accountable...basically, a burden that ought to be shared...that's marriage for grownups.
Yeah: I'm sharing the breastfeeding now and later she is going to share the unloading and stacking the firewood.
I guess we just haven't gotten the hang of this 'sharing' thing....