Woman: How do you write women so well?
Melvin: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.
Melvin Udall, novelist, in "As Good As It Gets"
Yes, and Melvin Udall was the kind of man more men should aspire to be like. An infantile egomaniac. That'll help. /sarc
You can be the guy women cheat on or the guy women cheat with--it's your choice.
"You women do it too" - I happen to be a heterosexual male. Among the circle of my acquaintances, the ratio [of the known to me cuckolds of both sexes] is more like 8 to 10, with men in a slight lead. Since I do not claim, nor do I want, to know everything about them, I'd say that the numbers are comparable, and leave the matter there.