I'll get flamed, and I don't care, but gays don't decide to be gay.
Whether or not they are born with the attraction, they *choose* to act upon it.
I, for example, am attracted to bikini-clad supermodels. I *choose* not to act upon my innermost desires.
That maybe true, but it is no reason to go out and celebrate one's gayness, and then shove it down everyone's throat all the time and then demand special privileges. Homosexuality, if congenital, is a medical disorder and should be treated as such. Do people with other forms of ailments march down the streets in grotesque fashion, and demand that their ailment be celebrated and be given special social privileges ? And just because two people have the same disorder , does not mean they should get married. Do we have AIDS patients marrying each other (regardless of sex) just because they have both have aids, or diabetes patients marrying each other because they are both diabetic ?
Some say alcoholism is genetic. I was the worst drunk I have ever met, but I decided drunkeness was a sin and I repented and haven't gotten drunk in 16 years, though I'm still good for about 2 beers a week. Genetic? Phhhht.
gays don't decide to be gay....
I have known a number of homosexuals, and many of them were born that way. Homosexuality has been with us since the beginning of time, and will be with us til the end of time. To say it's a choice is just cherrypicking facts to suit Dobson's agenda.
Are you gay?
For that matter, what if they do? Don't we need to show some harm before condemning behavior? STDs, yes, but that's promiscuity, not homosexuality.
The old accusation "those who condemn gays are hiding their own gayness" is rubbish but people who obsess about other peoples' sex lives definitely need another hobby.
And gays like to be called fag.