[dmw]

" I can see where some females may have a hatred for men, particularly if they've been abused."

Yes, very true. That's exactly why my mom became a lesbian. After having the crap beat out of her by my dad for ten years she decided she hated all men and would never marry again. She only became a lesbian because she was lonely and looking for companionship. She never really liked being a lesbian, but it was better than being lonely, and better than letting another man beat her to pulp again.

Many gay men I know have also been abused in some form or another when they were younger. Most of the ex-gay men I know were abused sexually or rejected by their father. Lots of other reasons too, but again, the facts don't seem to matter to you. But like I said, I have many good friends, gay and ex-gay, and I know that they can chose another lifestyle and be very happy doing it.

[LowOiL]

I had an older classmate become gay (lez) after the band director (he was bi) corrupted her.

[onyx]

I wish you and yours a Blessed and Merry Christmas.