The last thing I think newly married couples need is to start popping out babies before they're marriage relationship has just started. They need time to get to know each other first and grow before they make a big step like children being added to the mix.
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1.People should not be getting married if they don't know each other. 2. Getting married isn't a big step? 3. "Grow?" That's the kind of term people use when they are trying to explain why they are dumping their spouse.
If someone doesn't want to have children fine, but do you have to use such a derogotary and contemptuos expression for what some people might consider a beautiful thing.