The comparision is rather lame, and rather proves the opposite of your point, which is Haggard and Foley are both homos who betrayed their respective organisations which rather enforces the views that these organisations should weed out gays/lesbians from their ranks.
I have not made any nonsensical attacks on Gay couples, but rather just pointing that Republicans should stop being so inclusive of homosexual issues and take a more traditional stand on it which is reinforced by the big margins in which gay marriage has been banned in most parts of America by voters in referendums.
If wishes were horses...
When the GOP controlled both houses of Congress and the Presidency - nothing was done on changing the Constitution to ban gay marriage. Republicans and the Republican party are not going to ban gays or retreat into the past on what you call traditional issues. The GOP will continue to be about personal freedom and personal responsibility.