I agree. But actuall, both offend me.
Well me too- but really, soem concessions are pretty innocuous and while they might affect the individual, they do help everyone- seatbelts do save lives and money in insurace suits, medical costs etc, saving water does help in drought prone areas etc-- yeah, it would be nice to do what we want whenever we want, but sometimes it's not always possible as others make it harder for others by abusing systems etc.