ok, if you don't want to win the war by killing people and breaking things, you should openly suggest 'loving the enemy to death.' At least people will understand where you stand concerning winning the war. Fine by me, just wanted to know where you stood.
Sigh. See, I knew that you did not understand the distinction between the methods of war and the purposes of war. You still don't -- and so it leads you to asking stupid questions, and building silly strawmen.
Seriously, think about the difference for a while, and come back when you're ready to discuss like a responsible adult.