"Of her three children, T.J. seemed to worry most... "He went from having one parent to having no parents, basically," Nishimura said, reflecting. "People have said, 'Thank you so much for your sacrifice.' But it's the children who have had more of a sacrifice.""
Well, if the children sacrificed, it was by Nishimura's own hand. She willingly signed up to serve and knew she could be deployed at a moments notice. I'm out on a limb betting she wasn't worried about the sacrifice when she was back stateside at a desk job, using her GI Bill monies, and cashing her paychecks at the PX. BOTTOMLINE: She needs to STFU.
Perhaps before you tell people to STFU you should improve your reading skills. I read the entire article and nowhere do I find the Sgt. bitching. The writer is a pain in the rear but the Sgt. is ready to go again and wants to stay in.
Bingo.