There's someone out there for everyone. Some men do love their career women, I'm happy to say, and for other men there are homebodies who don't care about education and careers. We can all be happy.
This is exactly it. Anybody who invests much time and energy into making this personal decision into some kind of macro-battle has a screw loose.
Women have more choices than ever. Good thing. Men, of course, have more choices than ever, too. [Would you believe how many women grin when I say the first part and that smile is turned upside down when I relate the second part? Way too many.]
As long as goals are realistic, there isn't a problem. There are many women who want to stay at home and raise children and never deal with office life again (I know many of them). There are many women who can't wait to get back to work, too. Just find a mate on the same page, and everyone should be pretty happy.
Right?