I've read this thread with interest. Much of what you've posted I agree with on many levels, though I doubt you have any idea just how... um.... "young" you sound. To wit,
"It takes about a year to learn a job and a year to make yor mark on it... So by the second year one should be looking for more opportunities... This makes you in charge of your career, not the corporation. Uh-huh. Talk to us after you've actually, you know, like, HAD a job. LOL. And your downright pontificating on housewifery and motherhood. I mean, come on. You're playing devil's advocate, aren't you? If not, you seriously need to get over yourself. Is it your belief that all housewives and mothers have, you know, never, like.... worked? Or if they've worked, they were "ditzes" at Jiffy Lube? Oh my goodness.... well, as I said, "young".
But then, amidst all the liberated and modern young girl huff comes this: Because as a matter of evolution, girls don't want guys who make significantly less than them...
And with that (improper grammar and all), you join the ranks of the rest of us mortal women! LOL. There's hope for you, yet.