Good news! I realize some kids need some help...I'm just noting that we're shutting down normal outlets for boys, especially.
This son didn't like organized sports but got a green belt in Tae Kwon Do, road across the state on his bicycle, learned to play the guitar, was in choir, jazz band and rep theater in HS. He now is leaving a job as a geologist to play string bass in a band - he plays five instruments brilliantly. He's a pretty neat kid.