"Yeah, but the salvation army rejects any used furnishings or appliance that appear to have been, well, used."
Well if they are REALLY used ... there is a point of no return and the dump is the next best home for the item.
"We must not live in a very poor nation when I had furniture rejected for donation because it was no longer in style (and FORGET about a used baby car seat)."
I've had no issues with them on a baby playpen, car seat, changing table, desk, bureau - in fact they picked it up at the house. It was in good shape.
Trust me, my stuff was in great shape. I think it depends on the location (or maybe just the driver). I was able to get someone through our church to get the stuff to some needy people at least. They were VERY thankful for it.