I would rather him vote Republican, thus helping to defeat the Democrat. Is this a trick question?
If I might make so bold, I believe his broader point is that the party needs to stand strong and minimize such defections.
Apparently for you it is. The person has left the party - he's gone - he isn't voting Republican anymore.
If a person votes 3rd party in a close race, that should tell you that he had no intention of supporting either the democrat or the republican and did not care who won between the two.