"At some level if it becomes clear that the relationship is broken, that there's no possibility for a new life in that relationship, then the pastoral thing to do is to find a creative way to separate, a gracious way to separate,"
Does this mean she is willing to let traditionalist parishes separate in an orderly way, with their buildings, etc?
"Does this mean she is willing to let traditionalist parishes separate in an orderly way, with their buildings, etc?"
I doubt it.
No.
It means she is willing to let traditional Christian Episcopalians leave everything they treasure behind, and get the hell out of her bailiwick before she sues them, or sends in thugs to confiscate the records and change the locks on the doors. That's the way it's been done in Connecticut and she has never registered the slightesst objection.