It's not a matter of feeling better about myself. I believe women should have the right to know a man is in the restroom. It's a matter of informed consent. Notice I didn't say it was bad, or dangerous, nor did I purport to point out who the person was. In a restroom there is a certain expectation of privacy and often women do or say things to each other they would never do or say in front of a man, regardless of how he is dressed. How is that wrong, especially compared to a man who wants to surreptitiously enter a woman's restroom?