it is homecoming, there are 8 kids going to dinner at the country club and then to the dance at the school. It is a Catholic all boys HS, he and his friends each asked a girl from their catholic elementary school [from which they just graduated in 8th grade this past May] to the dance. we have known the people involved forever. xshub and another dad are doing the pick up from the dance and taking them home. it should be fine, but i did have some anxiety about it. xshub reported that when he and xsboy picked the young lady up at her home, xsboy went to the door to get her and then sat in the front seat of the SUV with his dad, leaving her to sit behind them. i roared! he is SOOOOO not ready for primetime!