Please provide a link to the place where I told you to shove it. I have no memory of this exchange, nor does google. I do have freepmails where you initiated a discussion of my personal faith. I can post them if you like. I responded to your query politely and sincerely. It took a bit of courage to do that, considering we don't agree on much. Your response was to drop the dialog, after assuring me that you were actually interested in an exchange of ideas.
I also don't have any recollection of posting that you are an asshole, although I have called a couple of people assholes. Most recently it was one of your allies whose idea of a good argument is to tell people who disagree with him to kill themselves. Nice guy. Glad he's on your side.
Now I am going to ask you politely to post a link to the place where I told you to "shove it," or have the assertion deleted.