VD's post is about what she finds sexually appealing in a man, and to a greater extent what many women find appealing in men. While those traits are not exclusively masculine, I tend to think that women tend to notice and appreciate them more in a man, than men tend to notice and appreciate them in a woman.
Truth is, most men won't even notice inner strength and dedication in a woman, as they tend to not be immediately apparent nor primarily high on the sex appeal list for most men.
They do tend to be apparent and fairly high on the sex appeal list for most women, though. That's the point I appreciated from VD's post.
I understand very well what this poster's opinion is; however, because I might raise my own opinions which appear not, on the surface, in keeping with the "landslide" of others or the (VD)poster's own opines; but truly, in fun, only digging for a little more genuineness of opinion with less "Vanity Fair Resound" in debate.
I will now conclude; however, while scrubbing out my Peri dish, that the poster has actually conducted [unknowingly]her own experiment on this forum. And with use, in part, of her terrific profile page was able to suck in the stomachs of many of her male FReeper contemporaries here. Were these sensitive answers in keeping with the true "working" character of those commenting or were their opinions that one wants the other to hear?
Life is an ice cream cone.(RummyGump-ism). It comes in different flavors. The flavor, whether plain vanilla or chocolate fudge chunk, the one most addicted to, cannot be reasoned why; nor ever even questioned for that matter, but only enjoyed. Grab hold of your favorite flavor as best you can, respect those that seek to keep us free, and challenge and refute those that seek, for whatever reason, to destroy.