True. But some men are just pigs and they don't realize that IT'S A PRISON to NOT be able to leer. Some guys can't possibly pass a woman by without visually undressing them. I'm a big, full-grown man and when I walk the mall with my teenaged daughter guys my age don't really care if I'm there-they're going to check her out.
They have NO control and don't see that it debases them as much as the woman. They'll do the same with my wife and I'm always on the verge of asking them what the hell they are looking at. I don't do so because it upsets my wife.
These guys are losers and have no chance of having a meaningful relationship with anything but the equivalent of themselves. They can't even stop leering at CHILDREN!!
I have friends that do it and I tell them about it. They'll get all hot and bothered at girl thats 100 yards away! It's like they have evolved a bionic eye or something!
Rant over---
How about telling your friends to just walk over to the woman they like and talk to them and make eye contact. Women like that. Just see if you like each other and go from there. And make them feel comfortable around you. Then see if they're heart is in the same place as yours. Very simple. It worked for many thousands of years. That pick-up plan with women only works short-term because you don't have consideration for her little heart.
I am not sure what you meant by that...Maybe you meant it is NOT a prison to NOT be able to leer?
Anyway, any guy that would put a woman in an uncomfortable position by olging her in an overt way is not much of a person. It just shows a basic lack of respect for another person.
There is no doubt that there are young women under the legal age of consent that are physically beautiful, but that doesn't give someone a license to act on it. That is what makes us men, and not beasts, that we live in a structure of society that puts limits on that.