Little story.
My wife was from McGreevey's town and as a reporter and later an employee with the state my wife knew McGreevey was a bit light in the loafers. When McGreevey was elected, my wife said that this will eventually come out in the press.
Her one article on this early in Mc's administratation was spiked by the editors because they said she was making allegations that weren't true. She told them she grew up with him and knew this to be true and irrefutable.
Well, on the day of his outing, I was listening to Hannity and heard the presser. I got on the phone with my wife and screamed, HE'S A FAG!!!!
My wife merely said, "No Sh*t" and hung up.
To confirm gay activities----just ask the local cops who patrol the streets. They know the places where gays congregate, and they know who goes in and out of gay bars, baths, and such.