Free Republic
Browse · Search
News/Activism
Topics · Post Article

To: Paved Paradise
You've obviously never been groped and you are obviously not a woman. I'm not saying this is something legit but women are vulnerable to stuff like this. If someone did that to me, he'd be minus a limb or worse.

I take some, a little, ofense at your statement, "...women are vulnerable to stuff like this."

As a 12 y.o. who delivered papers, I held up buy a grown man with a knife at my drop box. I was scared stiff. I spent the next 3 months I picked up my papers from the drop box, rain or shine, school nights or not, as soon as the papers were dropped off. Usually this happened at about 2 a.m..

I delivered those papers, hiding behind the drop bpx, trees, cars, laying in deep grass, whenever a car would approach. I carried a knife on my ankle, a billy club across my handlebars, and even screwed a long steel rod down the center of my club for added effect.

I guarantee you that I was at least as terrified and on a daily basis, as that flight attendent is/was.

The difference is, I was 12 years old, didn't need the money to pay my bills, I was alone, and on the dark streets as a child, and I WENT TO WORK ANYWAY.

It's got nothing to do with male or female. It has to do with someone who is failing to recover emotionally.

I respectfully submit that she needs to proveto herself that she's not a victim and get her ass to work.

25 posted on 09/22/2006 9:36:53 AM PDT by TheErnFormerlyKnownAsBig (Life is tough. It's even tougher when you're stupid.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 6 | View Replies ]


To: TheErnFormerlyKnownAsBig

You were very brave to do what you did as a small child, but that is no reason to assume this woman is unwilling to work or looking for an easy way out. You are making many assumptions, which is your prerogative, but I try not to do that so easily.

Additionally, I have no idea why you are offended. Your analogy of the fear you felt as a child does not equate with the fear a woman fears of sexual assault, although apparently you don't comprehend the seriousness of groping. Most women get this. Women get that WE are generally weaker than mean, which leaves us vulnerable for many things. Additionally, the offensiveness of sexual provocations against women is not always understood by males since a lot of guys might like a woman squeezing his bottom. Certainly, most men would not feel nearly as assaulted, though I believe it would wrong.

Sorry if you are offended, but I meant no personal offense.


32 posted on 09/22/2006 11:39:42 AM PDT by Paved Paradise
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 25 | View Replies ]

Free Republic
Browse · Search
News/Activism
Topics · Post Article


FreeRepublic, LLC, PO BOX 9771, FRESNO, CA 93794
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson