[RosieCotton]

The best work and home priorities, whether to work or not, how much, and for what reasons are things each of us decide ~with~ the person we meet, marry and live with. No one else matters.

I guess that's the bottom line.

It's just hard not to get riled up just a tad when you're accused of being something that goes against everything you are. ;-)

[HairOfTheDog]

I know, but try to remember, if they're that off base in their judgment, their opinion of you doesn't matter a bit. :~)