Day care is horrible for kids.
Both of mine were in day care. If you bring them home from day care and spend the time with them they turn out ok.
My two are fine thank god. When they came home from day care we spent time deprogramming them.
It is. I grew up in the best kind of day care--lovely, kind, family friend a block from our home. Yet, the damage ensued--loneliness, being shuttled, forgotten, scared, living in a fantasy world of what I wanted from my Mother, but never got. This was before she decided she wanted to move out for awhile to get her Master's degree in another city, when I was the critical age of blossoming at 12-14.
There was also the constant communication in both thought and action that children take from a woman's life--needless to say I wasn't all too anxious to have a child after that, who wants to feel they are giving up their life, their joy? But this is the lie that is communicated to the child, male and female alike.
I think this is also communicated by the MSM and has been for decades and part of the reason we don't see many children from Gen X downward having children (in addition to the mass of abortions that were easily available and huge amount of birth control options).
In the bible it states to go forth and bear fruit, not go forth and buy handbags, shoes and get a promotion. JMO