Any woman in the armed forces is there of her own volition, having made the choice that she will do her part serving her country in uniform. No one "put her there."
That does not mean that a women should be in or near combat.
That is still against the law.
That is why women are restricted from combat arms.
A law that is legimate seeing that women are different than men in many ways.
A fact that even those who consider themselves conservatives seem to have forgotten.